Best of the Best

Closing my eyes 
Vision unfolds
The pious lady
God's devotee...

As a daughter
As a daughter in law
As a sister
As a mother
How many I count
Each role mom, how perfectly tied.

Dad's perfect wife
Our eternal strength
A humble being
Symbol of love, each time...

With you I decor
My dreamy blue sky
In your warmth
This heart desire to soak each time
You are the land
You my sky
You are my inspiration
I desire to be alike
You are the strength
Of my broken eyes
You are my soul
With your vision
I want to strive...

Just with you
I want to surround my life
Forces of nature
She is the greatest humanly
You in her form
I visualize....

Single By Choice!

Many time I wonders, why marriages are a great institution in India? Why we girl is desiring a such kind of life partner for herself? Why we Indian to get married for just some false valid reasons?

In India, marriages filled by great celebration and rituals. In Indian society, marriage is a big Tamasa that every person gone through this. Often we think that we rose only for this institution, especially when it is a girl. It’s very strange as well as funny that half of marriages done by wrong reason, society pressure is one of them. People marry because society thinks they should marry.

We as a girl’s rise by this thought that one day our prince will come on a white horse and will take away all the troubles. We girls think that someday we will meet our soul mate. He will come and will make our life worthwhile. Then we will be complete. The fairy tale, and of course movies reinforces us, then we will only complete, when we will meet our other half. Simran is happy, only when she is with Raj. But it’s just only a fairly tale. It happens only in movies not in real life. The reality is so much different. No one completes anyone. Two complete individuals can join a journey, but no one can complete you. That thought only comes when we think we are not special as we are. But lovely ladies think, if you can not compete yourself own, you are not happy with yourself, then how can anyone make you happy. Happiness is related to our self. It comes from us. Self love is the best thing, which we received when we love our self unconditionally.

The good news is that India is changing. The new generation of women has many open doors. The scenario is changing. Gone are the days when the men are responsible for women all required needs. Education and economic freedom providing this power to women that they don’t need anyone to fulfill their needs.  This time they are able to take a decision that they should get married or stay single. They can decide what they want from their life.

But in India, stay single is really easy. I think it’s not. For a woman, it’s more difficult. A woman who crossed her twenties is the most discussion topic in her entire family and relatives. Every get to gathering, every faction gives the reasons for marring her. According to relatives and neighbors every guy is just suitable for her. Indian culture never allows women to grow as an individual.

Today’s women know how manages her life. How to take own decision and how to manage her finance. They are doing well in almost every industry. The new generation women are fearless.

This point should be noted that there is a big difference between single or lonely. Single is who, who is happy with him/herself. Who is leading a normal life. Someone who doesn’t need anyone to take care of him/her. Who is able to take own life responsibility.

Stop finding the one, be your lover. The most beautiful thing in staying single is, you have enough time for yourself, your dreams. Most of the times realizing and doing something for yourself is more important than the world realizing for you. Stay single, till then you will not find someone, who truly deserve you. Staying single is much better rather than being with just anyone, who kept away you from yourself worth and respect. Hey women....you are so beautiful.  Life is full of miracles. Singleness is the gift, enjoy big far ride, this called life.

  

Waiting for a fairy tale romance to complete you. No one can complete you. Someone can ride with you, but not complete you. Fall in love with yourself and this will complete you.

Women’S Day Salute To Moms

Wherever I go, wherever I move, there is someone whose blessings always moves alongside. How much far we stay, the unconditional love of her keeps the essence of ties, beautiful and sturdy. In all form women is portraying the exceptional roles, but the role of mom is eternal, and here, she even outshines divinity.

This is the most  amazing relation that has ever existed in the world. A lot soothing your friends may be but she is the first shadow friend one has; your praise, your falls, your success, and everything that comes along the way, Mom knows everything. As a child, how imperfect one may be but as a mother she is always perfect.

“Tongue-tied

Stood I….

How to articulate

A woman,

the most beautiful

in the world

A woman,

symbol of strength,

sacrifice and love…”

This adorable relation encapsulates the billions smiles, love, trust, support and a lot more undefined. Let’s unfurl the beauty of the relation which is gorgeously sublime.

Mother’s Love

It has been always she who beholds the hand, support  it with care and strengthen it with love. It may be the entering into the first class of school, or the nervy board exams, it may be entering of her girl bewildered into teenage or, a next life to start with. She is the mentor, she builds faith which keeps getting stronger every moment, every day.

The Beautiful I

A child may keep regretting her complexion, scars and physical appearance. But like mothers teach, when a child sees her reflex from the eyes of his mother and discovers the beauty, the beauty which may fail millions of gems because now they are beautiful, ‘as a prince and a princess of mom’.

My Master-Chef

Wherever you reach in the world, the first desire is to come back home, to again lick the fingers and enjoy the delicacies of a mother’s love.

I Care

Not only she embodies it in herself, but the sacrifices, the tender affection and perfect home management give the child, the lesson of share of care.

Win the World

She always lends the support in aspiring the dreams, overcoming the failures and the vigor to live and win the world. She is one who will always stand by your side, concatenated you may fail; she becomes a light which search out the success, from the shades, a lot difficult accomplishing it may be.

A Happy Time

With mom, jiffies of cheers is all that binds the life. Each precious moment of fun remains void without her presence and blessings. She is the one who loves you unequivocal, no matter what. With her it is always a happy time.

More I move, less I will cover, because she is the canvas which gets more beautiful with every stroke extended,  but never completes. She is the hope, she is the the light and one who is undefined.  At last, Love you Maa.

10 Life Lessons I learnt in My Life to be Happy!

Being a woman, not only just being a mother, a daughter, a sister, a wife or just a good looking girl. Being a woman is more than that. Being a woman is more beautiful than our imagination. You are a person first, just before these idealistic identities. You are a human being, you are alive and you are here to live a wonderful life. 

Here are the few lessons that learned to be happier and confidante:-

Accept Yourself as you are:- The very first step in the path of happiness is that you should accept yourself as the way you are. You are complete in yourself. Believe me, once you accept yourself, the situation will be smooth for you.

Accept Everything Around You:- I have learned from that life we need to accept everything around us. Sometime we don’t agree with any situation or person. But at that time silence is the best answer and the best solution is let that person or things go. We should silent and try to stay calm.

Respect and Value Yourself:- It is very important to take care of yourself. No matter how much you care for others never expect anything from anyone, No one is going to make you smile every time. Everyone is busy with his/her own life troubles. It’s your responsibility to take care of yourself and health. Give enough value to yourself and take your happiness responsibilities own.

Keep Calm: Today’s time life has become tougher. We are facing many problems in our personal and professional life. But it is very important to keep calm in that kind of situation. We have to patience in every situation. Patience always pays to us.

Have an Aim in Life:- It  is very important that the one should have a purpose in his/her life. A dream that can motivate us. That can give a purpose to live. Life with no purpose a just a blank road without any direction. It can not take us anywhere. Always find a purpose, a dream in life and chase that. That gives a satisfaction and happiness in life.

Do Pray and have Faith in God:- Pray give us strength. Having faith in God or Supreme power makes us strong. A small medication can help us to stay calm and motivate us.

Hear your Heart:- Sometimes we can not take any decision in such situation. In that case we should always listen to our heart. The heart is the mirror of God and it always leads us towards the right decision. Your heart always guide you even on that condition where our mind is not able to take any decision.

Learn to Say Know:- This is something serious, but most important point. We should learn how to say no in any bad situation or for any kind of abuse. When it comes to self worth or self respect than this most important, we should know when we say no. 

Forgiveness is Freedom:- In life, the situation can not right every time. Sometime people did something wrong with us, damage our mind and hurts our soul. But there is important that let it go that situation or person. We have to learn how to forgive people. That not mean that you want them in his/her life again that only means that they can not harm you again. Be strong, Just forgive them and forget.

Stop Judging Someone:- Sometime we waste our time in just judging someone. This can not be our priority. In actuality, people are not that they show us. We need to celebrate this life with support of the each other.

This is life and its goes on. I am still learning and just wondering that how much more to be discovered.