Single By Choice!

Many time I wonders, why marriages are a great institution in India? Why we girl is desiring a such kind of life partner for herself? Why we Indian to get married for just some false valid reasons?

In India, marriages filled by great celebration and rituals. In Indian society, marriage is a big Tamasa that every person gone through this. Often we think that we rose only for this institution, especially when it is a girl. It’s very strange as well as funny that half of marriages done by wrong reason, society pressure is one of them. People marry because society thinks they should marry.

We as a girl’s rise by this thought that one day our prince will come on a white horse and will take away all the troubles. We girls think that someday we will meet our soul mate. He will come and will make our life worthwhile. Then we will be complete. The fairy tale, and of course movies reinforces us, then we will only complete, when we will meet our other half. Simran is happy, only when she is with Raj. But it’s just only a fairly tale. It happens only in movies not in real life. The reality is so much different. No one completes anyone. Two complete individuals can join a journey, but no one can complete you. That thought only comes when we think we are not special as we are. But lovely ladies think, if you can not compete yourself own, you are not happy with yourself, then how can anyone make you happy. Happiness is related to our self. It comes from us. Self love is the best thing, which we received when we love our self unconditionally.

The good news is that India is changing. The new generation of women has many open doors. The scenario is changing. Gone are the days when the men are responsible for women all required needs. Education and economic freedom providing this power to women that they don’t need anyone to fulfill their needs.  This time they are able to take a decision that they should get married or stay single. They can decide what they want from their life.

But in India, stay single is really easy. I think it’s not. For a woman, it’s more difficult. A woman who crossed her twenties is the most discussion topic in her entire family and relatives. Every get to gathering, every faction gives the reasons for marring her. According to relatives and neighbors every guy is just suitable for her. Indian culture never allows women to grow as an individual.

Today’s women know how manages her life. How to take own decision and how to manage her finance. They are doing well in almost every industry. The new generation women are fearless.

This point should be noted that there is a big difference between single or lonely. Single is who, who is happy with him/herself. Who is leading a normal life. Someone who doesn’t need anyone to take care of him/her. Who is able to take own life responsibility.

Stop finding the one, be your lover. The most beautiful thing in staying single is, you have enough time for yourself, your dreams. Most of the times realizing and doing something for yourself is more important than the world realizing for you. Stay single, till then you will not find someone, who truly deserve you. Staying single is much better rather than being with just anyone, who kept away you from yourself worth and respect. Hey women....you are so beautiful.  Life is full of miracles. Singleness is the gift, enjoy big far ride, this called life.

  

Waiting for a fairy tale romance to complete you. No one can complete you. Someone can ride with you, but not complete you. Fall in love with yourself and this will complete you.