Single By Choice!

Many time I wonders, why marriages are a great institution in India? Why we girl is desiring a such kind of life partner for herself? Why we Indian to get married for just some false valid reasons?

In India, marriages filled by great celebration and rituals. In Indian society, marriage is a big Tamasa that every person gone through this. Often we think that we rose only for this institution, especially when it is a girl. It’s very strange as well as funny that half of marriages done by wrong reason, society pressure is one of them. People marry because society thinks they should marry.

We as a girl’s rise by this thought that one day our prince will come on a white horse and will take away all the troubles. We girls think that someday we will meet our soul mate. He will come and will make our life worthwhile. Then we will be complete. The fairy tale, and of course movies reinforces us, then we will only complete, when we will meet our other half. Simran is happy, only when she is with Raj. But it’s just only a fairly tale. It happens only in movies not in real life. The reality is so much different. No one completes anyone. Two complete individuals can join a journey, but no one can complete you. That thought only comes when we think we are not special as we are. But lovely ladies think, if you can not compete yourself own, you are not happy with yourself, then how can anyone make you happy. Happiness is related to our self. It comes from us. Self love is the best thing, which we received when we love our self unconditionally.

The good news is that India is changing. The new generation of women has many open doors. The scenario is changing. Gone are the days when the men are responsible for women all required needs. Education and economic freedom providing this power to women that they don’t need anyone to fulfill their needs.  This time they are able to take a decision that they should get married or stay single. They can decide what they want from their life.

But in India, stay single is really easy. I think it’s not. For a woman, it’s more difficult. A woman who crossed her twenties is the most discussion topic in her entire family and relatives. Every get to gathering, every faction gives the reasons for marring her. According to relatives and neighbors every guy is just suitable for her. Indian culture never allows women to grow as an individual.

Today’s women know how manages her life. How to take own decision and how to manage her finance. They are doing well in almost every industry. The new generation women are fearless.

This point should be noted that there is a big difference between single or lonely. Single is who, who is happy with him/herself. Who is leading a normal life. Someone who doesn’t need anyone to take care of him/her. Who is able to take own life responsibility.

Stop finding the one, be your lover. The most beautiful thing in staying single is, you have enough time for yourself, your dreams. Most of the times realizing and doing something for yourself is more important than the world realizing for you. Stay single, till then you will not find someone, who truly deserve you. Staying single is much better rather than being with just anyone, who kept away you from yourself worth and respect. Hey women....you are so beautiful.  Life is full of miracles. Singleness is the gift, enjoy big far ride, this called life.

  

Waiting for a fairy tale romance to complete you. No one can complete you. Someone can ride with you, but not complete you. Fall in love with yourself and this will complete you.

Women’S Day Salute To Moms

Wherever I go, wherever I move, there is someone whose blessings always moves alongside. How much far we stay, the unconditional love of her keeps the essence of ties, beautiful and sturdy. In all form women is portraying the exceptional roles, but the role of mom is eternal, and here, she even outshines divinity.

This is the most  amazing relation that has ever existed in the world. A lot soothing your friends may be but she is the first shadow friend one has; your praise, your falls, your success, and everything that comes along the way, Mom knows everything. As a child, how imperfect one may be but as a mother she is always perfect.

“Tongue-tied

Stood I….

How to articulate

A woman,

the most beautiful

in the world

A woman,

symbol of strength,

sacrifice and love…”

This adorable relation encapsulates the billions smiles, love, trust, support and a lot more undefined. Let’s unfurl the beauty of the relation which is gorgeously sublime.

Mother’s Love

It has been always she who beholds the hand, support  it with care and strengthen it with love. It may be the entering into the first class of school, or the nervy board exams, it may be entering of her girl bewildered into teenage or, a next life to start with. She is the mentor, she builds faith which keeps getting stronger every moment, every day.

The Beautiful I

A child may keep regretting her complexion, scars and physical appearance. But like mothers teach, when a child sees her reflex from the eyes of his mother and discovers the beauty, the beauty which may fail millions of gems because now they are beautiful, ‘as a prince and a princess of mom’.

My Master-Chef

Wherever you reach in the world, the first desire is to come back home, to again lick the fingers and enjoy the delicacies of a mother’s love.

I Care

Not only she embodies it in herself, but the sacrifices, the tender affection and perfect home management give the child, the lesson of share of care.

Win the World

She always lends the support in aspiring the dreams, overcoming the failures and the vigor to live and win the world. She is one who will always stand by your side, concatenated you may fail; she becomes a light which search out the success, from the shades, a lot difficult accomplishing it may be.

A Happy Time

With mom, jiffies of cheers is all that binds the life. Each precious moment of fun remains void without her presence and blessings. She is the one who loves you unequivocal, no matter what. With her it is always a happy time.

More I move, less I will cover, because she is the canvas which gets more beautiful with every stroke extended,  but never completes. She is the hope, she is the the light and one who is undefined.  At last, Love you Maa.