Being a woman, not only just being a mother, a daughter, a sister,
a wife or just a good looking girl. Being a woman is more than that. Being a
woman is more beautiful than our imagination. You are a person first, just
before these idealistic identities. You are a human being, you are alive and
you are here to live a wonderful life.
Here are the few lessons that learned to be happier
and confidante:-
Accept Yourself as you are:- The very first step in the path of happiness is
that you should accept yourself as the way you are. You are complete in
yourself. Believe me, once you accept yourself, the situation will be smooth
for you.
Accept Everything Around You:- I have learned from that life we need to accept
everything around us. Sometime we don’t agree with any situation or person. But
at that time silence is the best answer and the best solution is let that
person or things go. We should silent and try to stay calm.
Respect and Value Yourself:- It is very important to take care of yourself. No
matter how much you care for others never expect anything from anyone, No one
is going to make you smile every time. Everyone is busy with his/her own life
troubles. It’s your responsibility to take care of yourself and health. Give
enough value to yourself and take your happiness responsibilities own.
Keep Calm: Today’s time life has become tougher. We are facing many
problems in our personal and professional life. But it is very important to
keep calm in that kind of situation. We have to patience in every situation.
Patience always pays to us.
Have an Aim in Life:- It is very important that the one
should have a purpose in his/her life. A dream that can motivate us. That can
give a purpose to live. Life with no purpose a just a blank road without any
direction. It can not take us anywhere. Always find a purpose, a dream in life
and chase that. That gives a satisfaction and happiness in life.
Do Pray and have Faith in God:- Pray give us strength. Having faith in God or
Supreme power makes us strong. A small medication can help us to stay calm and
motivate us.
Hear your Heart:- Sometimes we can not take any decision in such situation. In
that case we should always listen to our heart. The heart is the mirror of God
and it always leads us towards the right decision. Your heart always guide you
even on that condition where our mind is not able to take any decision.
Learn to Say Know:- This is something serious, but most important point. We
should learn how to say no in any bad situation or for any kind of abuse. When
it comes to self worth or self respect than this most important, we should know
when we say no.
Forgiveness is Freedom:- In life, the situation can not right every time.
Sometime people did something wrong with us, damage our mind and hurts our
soul. But there is important that let it go that situation or person. We have
to learn how to forgive people. That not mean that you want them in his/her
life again that only means that they can not harm you again. Be strong, Just
forgive them and forget.
Stop Judging Someone:- Sometime we waste our time in just judging
someone. This can not be our priority. In actuality, people are not that they
show us. We need to celebrate this life with support of the each other.
This is life and its goes on. I am still learning and
just wondering that how much more to be discovered.
